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So what made me decide to blog, I really have no clue. What also is a shock is this is the story I choose to tell ?! So why the JERRY JERRY JERRY chant? Jerry Springer, some trashy tv but sure kept your eyes glued to see what would happen. No I’m not in love with my cousin, cheating on my wife with my mother in law or anything else you can think of. My story is more of how I got together with my gorgeous wife & soul mate .... No no no, not my ex wife. I said wife. Pay attention it gets crazy.

Evil lurks everywhere, you can’t see it always but it’s their. Sometimes you don’t notice it untill it’s to late. Why am I now talking about evil? Well remember this is a story of my ex wife, no no that’s not right it’s a story about how I got together with my wife, It’s going to be a few parts to this story but Let’s start at High school . I don’t like the term “ high school sweet hearts “ , because she was not sweet nor have a heart, ok I seem to paint her with one brush I know . Just wait

Young, dumb and Full of .. errr, ahh in love ! is how I would describe myself. We got married a few years out of high school. Everything seemed fine, not great but fine. She was a very difficult person, hard to keep happy, always complaining, never want to see my family ect. We even had to open our wedding presents with just her family, not one person from my side. There was no gift opening or anything the next day. But her family was really nice, She had amazing grandparents who I came to love as my own. Life was busy, she worked in an office. I worked a 9-5 job as a labour, going to school on my apprenticeship to become a carpenter. Also while doing this I had a landscape company and worked 8 hrs over night to maintain commercial property’s landscape, Trying to build a company ( which is another crazy story I’ll get into another blog maybe ) Some times I wouldn’t sleep for 48 hrs or more. I’d get home from my 9-5 job and we would walk our dog or watch some tv shows, movies or go out. I’d feel guilty if I slept, not sure why but I would. I wasn’t allowed to see my family I would have to say I was working to go see my sister for breakfast, my ex wife would get so mad if I saw my family. But with all this working . I didn’t see what was in my face. My marriage was not so good. Am I perfect ? Nope not even close, some days I was a zombie 🧟‍♂️

Well My sister, who is older. Married with two kids, also married her high school sweet heart. Had a child minutes out of high school. Then another two years later. Great kids, I’m a proud uncle. I was then and I am today. They Played hockey, Dad coached, All in all he was a really great dad, involved in everything they do , I mean he was like an older brother. I knew him since I was 11-12 years old, So I’d go for breakfast and say how controlling she is and we would talk my mom, sister, brother in law and I. For years we did this.

Fast forward 8 years or so .......

My ex wife all of a sudden wanted to go watch my nephews hockey, we went to my sisters to play games ect. I’m thinking wow she’s starting to like my family, this is amazing I thought. A few months later, My sister started to think her husband was cheating. He had to work late , was gone more ect. I didn’t think anything I worked my 16 hrs a day, 8 of those over night remember. So I never noticed a thing ...

🚨Alarms should have been going off 🚨

I heard nothing, seen nothing. Of course hindsight is always clear as day. But I was in a fog and didn’t see my wife ( of the time ) was sleeping with my sister husband. While I was out cutting grass ...... So hence where Jerry Springer comes in. Now my nephews Aunt who they have know forever is now there step mom ??? WAIT ... What ???

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