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JERRY, JERRY, JERRY

This will finally come to an end, maybe a little long winded but all was needed I think . Well where did we leave off?? oh yes, with myself being a drunk driver ( never crashed or hurt any one thank god), my situation not good I knew I had to leave and my mom got cancer ❤️

Wanna catch up to speed ? Read my last two blogs

So my mom has cancer and we my sister, me and my Aunt and Uncle from Winnipeg who moved here for months to help out Are looking after her , Living day to day with that, again that’s another story. So not going to talk about that much here but FUCK YOU CANCER !

I kind of feel parts of this are not my story to tell so I will be vague and be as nice as I can be given the events that unfold .

Lee calls me devastated, And I mean crushed ! Mike is cheating on her with one of our best friends wives, some one we can not stand! I mean no one can stand her. A real crazy back stabbing women. Evil to her core. So They are getting a divorce, wow I was in shock ... at this point in the story they now have another son named Griff. Those poor 2 boys, Jake 6 and Griff 2. I never heard from Mike again After that. Not 1 phone call or text. I was pretty mad, I mean he has two kids.

I go for lunch with Lee’s Dad (Larry)we talk and can’t believe it .

It was a messy divorce, I would go for lunch with Lee and we would talk. I was friends with her after all, I knew her years before Mike. Lee and I have know each other since grade 3. Mike has the boys for a holiday and Lee said she would go crazy sitting at home with out her boys. So I said let’s go to Vegas, my treat I said ! So we went in early June, it was a blast

That was a great holiday, Lee and I had a lot of fun. Walking and talking, suppers and the piano bar at New York, New York .. Mike was on his holiday with his boys as it turns out that was one of the last times he seen them. Jake didn’t want to eat something so he wasn’t allowed back. Griff went a little more but then he too got the boot. It’s been 9 year’s since he seen them, not a phone call on birthdays, no cards, no Christmas wishes, NOTHING ! He dumped them like yesterday’s garbage. Never to be seen again, I know this all too well ...dead beat dads For I had one too

Well I’m guessing you have figured it out by now, I was alone for Christmas that year just me and my Doberman. My Mom was now with the angels, Lee and the boys said come over for Christmas and bring Sumo! That’s just what I did, brought my dog and lots of presents. After Christmas I was going to leave And go back home but sumo wouldn’t leave her house, I guess he kinda liked her... I do too buddy , I do too ! Lee said “ ahh just stay “ and I never left .... that spring Lee sold her house, I sold mine and we moved out to the country where we still are today .

Well well well, So it turns out I could be on Jerry again, Lee and I were in each other’s wedding parties, been strictly friends for years, I’ve been around her family for decades, The list goes on .

Yes if you havent connected the dots, I’m a step dad. I never mentioned it because these are my kid’s. 100% they are mine, I may not be the father but I am the Dad ... I always say my kids, I don’t say my step kids. They don’t remember a time I haven’t been in their life. And I always will be

Here is a photo of my son Jake age 6 with now our Doberman Sumo .

One last thing to close out this trilogy of how I ended up with my wife. I am the luckily one. I don’t know if lucky is the right word ? Because it was inevitable. I have 2 amazing kids , 1 beautiful wife. I have 3 amazing people in my immediate family, they just got me . But I get 3 ! Also An extended family the greatest mother and father in-law / sister in-law / nephew who are some of the best people I have ever met . And of course Lee gets my amazing family, my sister and partner , nephews , all my aunts, uncle and Cousins’s in good old Winnepeg.. well almost all ... we will go 95% great in Winnepeg 😂 you know who you are 🤣 ... and on Lee’s side aunts and uncles , I mean this is a wonderful group of people . I guess good people attract good people ❤️ As much as we tried to stay apart the universe had other plans. Many opportunities in both our lives and this story would have ended different. I am blessed everyday for the things we have , in a time like this even more so.

Thank you for reading ❤️

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